When you look at something too closely it becomes a blur.
When you stand to close to something you can’t see the whole thing.
People are much the same of this. When some people are too close to somebody they end up being biased. They see them through rose tinted glasses. Nothing that person does could possibly be bad or wrong. They couldn’t possibly do anything wrong. They are perfect. They are angels.
This isn’t love, this is infatuation. Real love isn’t about holding somebody up on a pedestal it’s about loving them with their faults. Knowing that the person can be capable of doing wrong. Knowing that they are human. That is love. It’s love because you love the person wholly. You are not ignoring the bad parts or in denial about them.
Sometimes it takes a fight and a falling out for you to realize what a person is really like. When you take a step back you see the whole person, warts and all. And if you like them all the same good, at least now your not staying in the dark about what they are really like. You’re not blinded by the light. But other times you wonder what the hell you saw in that person in the first place.
That’s All For Now My Darlings!
MWAH!
-SecretKeepIt
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P.S And as always if you have any questions, opinions, or topics, get in touch here or on my Twitter page @SecretKeepIt or even my Facebook https://www.facebook.com/pages/SecretKeepIt/496661633693032
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