China Dolls

Something so amazing, so beautiful and natural is destroyed in seconds. Mere seconds. Life is so delicate, so fragile. It's something we take for granted every day. All it takes is one bus, one stumble, one accident and we are wiped from the land of the living. Seconds. We are china dolls, we can fall and smash into a million tiny fragments. We are like flames of candles, one gust of wind can extinguish out light.

Ok, I am sounding very very morbid I know but I just got thinking how things can be there one second and gone the next. And I realised how it related to us as people. People die. Its a sad, fucked up fact that nobody can change. Some go old, some are taken by chance, but in the end, we all end up dead.

What counts is how we spend our lives. I for one plan on leaving behind a legacy. I will regret very little and love fiercely. I'm gonna make my mark on this crazy place we call earth. And I think everyone should aspire to do that. Not to simply cruise by in life on autopilot but actually live and love. Life can be taken at literally any second so I want to be able to go at any second, being happy with the life I lived.

A morbid short one this time my darlings!

MWAH!

-SecretKeepIt

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Read The Book

She’s blonde, she’s an airhead. 

She has huge boobs she’s definitely easy.

Of course he’s smart, look he’s wearing glasses.

He’s a dick. No there is no particular reason, but he’s a guy so he must be. 

Stereotypes. 

My darlings, how often do we hear these things in our world today, or worse again how often do we think them? We make so many presumptions about people upon first glance that we have no evidence to back them up. 

Girls say that all guys are dicks, well usually they say “All guys are dicks, but you’re an exception.” Flattering and all it may be I don’t like it when people just generalize a whole gender like that. Sure there are a lot of dicks out there, but there are lots of nice guys too. The problem is, generally we are just attracted to the dicks. We like to think we could be the one to change them. Or maybe we just want something that is hard for us to have. I’m not sure. But while all these assholes get chased by plenty of girls there are so many nice guys just waiting in the sidelines for the right person to come along. But unfortunately nice guys are usually friend-zoned because they’re nice, and that makes them great friends.

Guys look at girls who go out dressing, well dressing … well looking as though they are half dressed like pieces of meat. They think that just because they are dressed how they are that they’re up to fuck. This shouldn’t happen. People should be able to dress how they like without expectations being made of them. Look at the television, look at the music videos, look in magazines. This is the fashion that is expected of girls in this day and age. Just because a girl likes to show a little skin, or a lot of skin it doesn’t mean she wants to have sex. And it does not give anyone the right to take away that power from her. 

You need to look at a person as a whole. You can’t know everything about someone by the clothes they wear, or the way they wear there hair, or by the kind of body they have. You can’t really make a judgement on a person on the cover, on what’s on the surface, you have to read the whole book before you can make a fair judgement.


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That’s All For Now My Darlings!

MWAH!

-SecretKeepIt

Strut That Shit

Confidence.

The smirk, the look, the walk it’s all part of what makes a person radiate confidence but what is it that brings them there?

The cool charisma, the big personality, the ability to be oneself it all comes in hand with this brilliant trait. But it so is hard to obtain. How do we move past those voices in our head telling us not to stand out; that we’ll make a fool of ourselves. How do we stop caring what others think, ignore those judgmental looks? 

During the junior cycle of my school life I was the field mouse, the shadow, the quiet one. Yes I answered in class, raised my hand, knew all the answers but that didn’t exactly make me confident not socially. In groups I was the quiet one, who laughed along with the others but never really made the jokes. Never brought myself to the center stage.

Then something happened, a chance to start again, almost completely afresh. I got to leave the year I was in and move ahead, as I didn’t do TY. So over the summer something changed. I decided I was done being the quiet one. And magically I was confident.

No not really. I faked it. I put on this brave face. I adopted the “fake it till you make it” act. The butterflies were still there, the sudden scarlet face was always threatening to appear but I learned to act like they didn’t exist. I played the role of this brand new confident person who made people laugh, sometimes at me, but mostly with me. And eventually it stopped being an act, it was just who I was.

So my advice is, if you need that boost of confidence, just fake it till you make it. I learned the only way to earn respect almost instantly is to walk into any room as though you own it. Strut that shit, even if you think you look awful. But most importantly just let the part of you that struggles to get out past the insecurities shine, even if it is just for show.

But remember there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance so tread carefully my darlings.

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That’s all for now my darlings ;)

MWAH!

Your ever so confident -SecretKeepIt

I'm Back Bitches

Well hello there my darlings, and of course my bitches. Guess who’s back?

Most of you won't have ever heard of me, I am but a humble Tumblr blogger, but I aim to play in the big leagues now.

I know it’s been a while, but with exams and then with life, my poor, sad, barely read little Tumblr page got oh so neglected. 

So this is me blowing off the cobwebs. I am so back so stay tuned for more ;) I won’t keep you waiting too long.

The gloves are off. The gears are turning. I’m back bitches.

That’s all for now my darlings ;)

MWAH!

-SecretKeepIt 

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